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Celebrate Nochebuena: A Guide to Festive Traditions

Christmas dinner spread

By Chiara Luz

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The holidays are all about joy and togetherness—but sometimes things can get a little not so traditional on the traditional holiday, especially when family dynamics and co-parenting are in the mix. But don’t forget to breathe, you’ve got options. With a little creativity, you can keep the season merry while honoring your traditions.

My Story

Growing up, Christmas Eve dinner was the centerpiece of the holiday in my family—a night of warmth, laughter, and anticipation. After my mom remarried we didn’t keep it going. Dad was from the south, so regular Christmas dinner it was! But in Puerto Rico the Caribbean and many cultures throughout the globe, NocheBuena is a cherished tradition. Admittedly we just focused on a nice ham, rice and peans and things like that and even attended church. However, across the globe this is a really big deal. Here’s how different cultures make December 24th unforgettable:


Spain & Latin America – Nochebuena

Families gather late at night for a festive feast, often followed by Misa de Gallo (midnight mass).
Signature dishes: Roasted pork (lechón), tamales, bacalao, romeritos, and sweet treats like buñuelos. Drinks include ponche and coquito.


Italy – La Vigilia

Known for the Feast of the Seven Fishes, Italian families abstain from meat and enjoy a lavish seafood dinner.
Signature dishes: Baccalà (salted cod), calamari, clams, and pasta with seafood.


Poland – Wigilia

A symbolic meal with 12 meatless dishes, starting when the first star appears. Families share oplatek wafers and blessings before dinner.
Signature dishes: Pierogi, beet soup (barszcz), carp, and poppy seed desserts.


France – Réveillon de Noël

A grand late-night feast featuring luxurious dishes.
Signature dishes: Oysters, foie gras, roasted meats, and bûche de Noël (Yule log cake).


Portugal – Consoada

Families gather for a traditional supper steeped in Catholic tradition.
Signature dishes: Salted cod (bacalhau), boiled potatoes, and seasonal sweets.


Scandinavia – Julbord

In Sweden, Norway, and Denmark, Christmas Eve dinner includes a smorgasbord of hearty dishes.
Signature dishes: Pickled herring, ham, meatballs, and rice pudding.


Philippines – Nochebuena

A vibrant celebration after midnight mass, filled with family and festive cheer.
Signature dishes: Lechon (roast pig), queso de bola, ham, and sweet desserts.


Why Christmas Eve?
For many Catholic and Orthodox traditions, Christmas Eve marks the vigil before Christ’s birth, making it a spiritually significant time for family gatherings and feasting.


Tip: If you celebrate Christmas Eve dinner, share your favorite dish or tradition in the comments! What makes this night special for you?


Nochebuena Menu Plan

Main Dish

Pineapple-Glazed Christmas Ham (Hamon de Bola)

  • Why: A classic centerpiece that feels celebratory and sweet.
  • Prep Tip: Start marinating the ham in pineapple juice the night before for maximum flavor.
  • Recipe link

Side Dishes

  1. Ensalada Nochebuena (Mexican Christmas Eve Salad)
    • A colorful mix of lettuce, beets, jicama, apples, oranges, peanuts, and pomegranate seeds.
    • Prep Tip: Chop veggies in the morning and refrigerate; assemble just before serving.
    • Recipe link
  2. Filipino Sweet-Style Spaghetti
    • Sweet tomato sauce with ground meat and hotdogs, topped with cheese.
    • Prep Tip: Cook the sauce ahead and reheat before dinner.
    • Recipe link

Dessert

Dulce de Noche Buena (Colombian Dessert Platter)

  • Includes candied papaya, figs, buñuelos, hojuelas, and cheese.
  • Prep Tip: Make buñuelos and hojuelas early in the day; store in an airtight container.
  • Recipe link

Drink

Coquito (Puerto Rican Coconut Eggnog)

  • Creamy coconut drink with condensed milk, rum, cinnamon, and nutmeg.
  • Prep Tip: Chill for at least 4 hours before serving for the best flavor.
  • Recipe link

✅ Prep Timeline

  • Day Before: Marinate ham, prep dessert components, and make coquito.
  • Morning of: Chop salad ingredients, cook spaghetti sauce, and fry buñuelos.
  • Evening: Bake ham, assemble salad, boil pasta, and set up dessert platter.

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How Kindness Made Homeownership Possible For A Lucky Cleveland Mom

a person holding a key

By Haven Adisa

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The dream of owning a home is elusive for many—but not for this Cleveland mother, who gets the surprise of a lifetime.

“Throwback to a story that still warms the heart…”
Sometimes the most inspiring moments deserve to be revisited. This Cleveland mother’s journey reminds us that kindness never goes out of style—and that the dream of homeownership can change lives in ways we’ll never forget.



For countless families, the dream of homeownership feels like a distant horizon—something hoped for but rarely within reach. Yet, every so often, life delivers a moment so extraordinary that it reminds us of the power of kindness and the beauty of second chances.

Homeownership isn’t just about having a roof overhead. It’s about stability, security, and the promise of new beginnings. It’s about children having a place to grow, laugh, and dream. And in this case, it’s about a community coming together to make the impossible possible.

In a world often overshadowed by division and hardship, stories like this shine like beacons of hope. They remind us that generosity still exists, that strangers can become heroes, and that sometimes, the greatest surprises come when we least expect them.

So, if you’ve ever doubted the goodness in people, let this story restore your faith. Because when kindness meets opportunity, lives are transformed—and dreams come true.

Keep Believing In Your Dreams Because You never know who’s watching.
In a world where shortcuts are tempting, doing the right thing—even when no one notices—can lead to unexpected rewards. Life has a way of honoring quiet integrity. Just ask the TSA workers who showed up, did their jobs with excellence, and were surprised with bonus checks—bringing them one step closer to dreams like owning a home.

My wish is that the gift and responsibility of homeownership can be made possible for many. For too many people who have waited for generations to get a leg up–it is time that by hook, crook, or the kindness of strangers that families can experience the American dream.

“Now our struggle is for genuine equality, which means economic equality. For we know now that it isn’t enough to integrate lunch counters. What does it profit a man to be able to eat at an integrated lunch counter if he doesn’t have enough money to buy a hamburger?”

Dr. Martin Luther King Jr., speaking to sanitation workers in Memphis, March 18, 1968

Homeownership is a true gateway to equity and a step forward for generational wealth and legacy for families. Sometimes, the seeds we plant in secret bloom into blessings beyond imagination.

Resources for Maryland Homebuyers

If you’re inspired by stories of generosity and new beginnings, here are some incredible organizations and programs in Maryland working to make homeownership possible for more families:

🏠 Habitat for Humanity Metro Maryland

Builds and preserves affordable homes in Montgomery and Prince George’s Counties. Families contribute “sweat equity” and receive affordable mortgages, creating stability and community.
🔗 Learn more


🏡 Housing Initiative Partnership (HIP)

A nonprofit developer offering HUD-approved homeownership counseling, foreclosure prevention, and affordable housing development in Prince George’s and Montgomery Counties.
🔗 Learn more


🌟 Maryland Affordable Housing Coalition (MAHC)

Advocates for expanding affordable housing opportunities through education and collaboration with local partners.
🔗 https://mdahc.org


🛠 Habitat for Humanity of the Chesapeake

Focuses on affordable housing development and rehabilitation for low-income families across Central Maryland.
🔗 https://habitatchesapeake.org


✅ Maryland Mortgage Program (MMP)

Statewide program offering 30-year fixed-rate mortgages, down payment assistance, and special options like SmartBuy 3.0 (helps pay off student debt) and HomeAbility (for buyers with disabilities).
🔗 https://mmp.maryland.gov


💰 Local Assistance Programs

  • Prince George’s County Pathway to Purchase – Up to $25,000 in down payment assistance.
  • Baltimore City First-Time Homebuyers Incentive Program – $10,000 for qualifying buyers.
  • City of Laurel Assistance Program – $5,000 toward down payment and closing costs.
    🔗 https://mmp.maryland.gov

Tip: Many of these organizations also offer financial education, credit counseling, and community support—key steps toward building generational wealth and stability.

“Do you believe homeownership is still the American dream? Why or why not?”

Share this story and inspire someone today—because kindness creates ripples.

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Deck The Halls With Gingerbread Walls: Plus, The 14th Century Recipe!

By Chiara Luz

This past weekend I picked up a gingerbread house from Costco. It was too sweet of a deal to pass up at only $13.99. A little girl who was with her mom saw it in my cart and said, “A gingerbread house, Mom—no fair!” Her mother started to head over to the aisle after I told her the price.

I had fun putting it together with my daughter. There were some gingerbread people in the front of the house that seem to have gone missing (hmm) — I wonder how that happened! But I love making traditions with my family. I actually did not grow up putting together a gingerbread house, but a friend from my kid’s Catholic school kept giving me a kit and I finally got into it. If you are looking for a fun, no-stress activity, this is it. Plus, the icing is yummy.


How Did Gingerbread Houses Become a Christmas Thing?

Gingerbread dates back to medieval Europe, where it was a luxury treat made with honey and exotic spices. The first recorded English recipe appeared in 1390 in The Forme of Cury, written by the cooks of King Richard II.

A page from late 14th-century manuscript in the John Rylands Library, Manchester[a]

The idea of building houses from gingerbread started in 16th-century Germany, inspired by the Brothers Grimm fairy tale Hansel and Gretel. Side note: as a child my mom used to read me these very scary Grimm’s fairy tales as a kid. I think they liked to scare kids in the 80s. But anyway, German bakers turned this into an art form, and immigrants later brought the tradition to America. Today, decorating gingerbread houses is a festive way to combine creativity, sweetness, and family fun.


The Original Gingerbread Recipe (14th Century)

This medieval version was more like a spiced honey candy than a cookie:

Ingredients:

  • 1 quart honey
  • Saffron (for color)
  • Powdered pepper
  • Grated bread (to thicken)
  • Powdered cinnamon
  • Optional: sandalwood (for red coloring)
  • Cloves (for decoration)

Instructions:

  1. Boil the honey and skim it clean.
  2. Add saffron and powdered pepper.
  3. Stir in grated bread until thick enough to slice.
  4. Sprinkle cinnamon on top.
  5. Shape into squares or slices.
  6. Decorate with box leaves and cloves; color red with sandalwood if desired.

This treat was served at feasts and cut into diamonds—sweet, chewy, and spiced, a far cry from today’s molasses-based cookies!


So if you’re looking for a cozy holiday tradition, grab a kit, gather your loved ones, and make your own sweet memories.

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Christmas Traditions: Nigeria vs. Western Celebrations

By Haven Adisa

The other day, my daughter came home from school with tears in her eyes. Her classmates had told her, “There’s no Santa Claus.” She looked at me, searching for answers, and in that moment, I realized this was more than a question about a man in a red suit—it was about the magic and meaning of Christmas.

So, I sat her down and told her the truth: Santa Claus is real—but not in the way you think. He lives in the spirit of generosity, kindness, and joy that has been part of Christmas for centuries.

Christmas Didn’t Start Right Away

People often assume Christmas has been celebrated since the birth of Christ. In reality, it wasn’t an early Christian holiday. According to historical records, celebrations of Christ’s birth began around 200 AD, and by the 4th century, churches agreed on December 25 as the official date. Why that date? Some link it to the Roman festival Saturnalia, others to Jewish traditions. Over time, elements from pagan winter festivals—like gift-giving, greenery, and feasting—blended into Christmas.

Traditions That Shaped Christmas

  • Nativity Scenes: St. Francis of Assisi introduced the first crèche in 1223, making the Nativity central to Christmas.
  • Christmas Trees: Originating from pagan symbols of life, they became a sign of hope and eternity. Early gifts were hung on trees before moving under them.
  • Holly & Yule Logs: Holly symbolized everlasting life and Christ’s crown of thorns; Yule logs came from old customs of sharing warmth.
  • Santa Claus: Rooted in St. Nicholas, a 4th-century bishop known for secret acts of charity. Dutch settlers brought his tradition to America, evolving into the jolly Santa we know today.

Christmas in Nigeria: Vibrant and Joyful

In Nigeria, Christmas is a family-centered celebration filled with color and music:

  • Family Reunions: Many travel to ancestral villages for big gatherings.
  • Church Services: Worship and carols are central on Christmas Day.
  • Festive Meals: Jollof rice, pounded yam, goat meat, and “small chops” like puff-puff and samosas.
  • Fashion: Coordinated Ankara outfits—families compete for the most stylish look!
  • Father Christmas: Children eagerly await gifts from Baba Christmas, often at parties or community events.
  • Decorations: Homes, malls, and streets sparkle with lights and ornaments.

How Does This Compare to Western Traditions?

  • Family: Both cultures value togetherness, but Nigeria emphasizes large village reunions.
  • Food: Western tables feature turkey and pies; Nigerian feasts are spicy and diverse.
  • Fashion: Cozy sweaters in the West vs. bold, elegant attire in Nigeria.
  • Santa vs. Father Christmas: Sleigh and reindeer vs. dancing in vibrant prints.
  • Decorations: Both love lights and trees, but Nigerian celebrations add music and color everywhere.

One thing I love to do is eat on Christmas. I love to make Jollof rice with a nice crunchy salad and then top it off with a sweet and delicious Puff-Puff. I inherited these recipes, but I will gladly pass them on. They’re like little yummy donuts and they’re great to leave Santa. Here is the recipe:

To make Puff Puff, follow these steps:

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Creative Tooth Envelopes for Kids

“Tooth Envelopes” by Chiara Luz

With young kids, a lot of my mental space is taken up, especially since my daughter is still losing teeth. I got tired of the usual “put it under the pillow and leave money” routine, so I decided to make little money envelopes. They’re great because when your child loses a tooth, they can color the envelope and place it under their pillow. While they’re asleep or out of the room, you can use a matching envelope to add money, or use the one they decorated. I’ll be adding these to the family section of my shop later this week, along with a tooth fairy envelope that tells a story. Subscribers will get exclusive access to one-of-a-kind original artwork and some fun extras for everyone. Do you use tooth fairy bags for your kids? I’d love to know how you handle it.

I am adding these in the family section of the shop later this week if you want to grab a few for yourself. I am creating a tooth fairy envelope that can tell a story as well.

For my subscribers there will be an invite only to one of a kind original artwork and then some fun stuff for all.

Do you use tooth fairy bags for your kids? Let me know how you manage that. I would be curious.

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Gratitude and Financial Responsibility for Women

Daily writing prompt
What positive events have taken place in your life over the past year?

“She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.” – Proverbs 31:25

One of the biggest shifts in my life has been steadily stepping into entrepreneurship and embracing fiscal responsibility. Every day, I learn something new about money—and here’s the truth: money is not a bad word. It’s actually a powerful tool and far more than just a way to pay bills. It can fund dreams, create security, and open doors to freedom.

There’s an old saying: “People perish for lack of knowledge and vision.” That resonates deeply with me. Many of us, if we’re honest, approach money in a hand-to-mouth way because we lack a clear vision for what to do with it. Years ago, I took time to pray and reflect on the vision for my life—not as a wife or mom, but as a woman.

That moment set a series of changes in motion. I realized I didn’t want another purse or more ill-fitting clothes. I wanted purpose, impact, and abundance—but without vision, those things felt out of reach. I don’t feel that so much now. I am in a space of looking around and seeing what life has to offer and being grateful for what is there. There is alot and I will be sharing lots of resources and initiatives from my home state.

The Reality for Women and Money

Here’s why this conversation matters:

  • After divorce, women’s household income drops by an average of 41%, compared to 23% for men.
  • Nearly 56% of women defer financial decisions to their spouse, leaving them vulnerable when life changes.
  • Financial literacy among women lags behind men—only 52% of women demonstrate strong financial knowledge compared to 62% of men.

These numbers are sobering, especially when you consider that many women have never opened a bill or managed household finances until a major life event forces them to. But here’s the good news: awareness is the first step toward empowerment.


Gratitude and Growth

My biggest attitude is gratitude. Life will hand you lemons—but you can keep squeezing out lemonade. These are the years to change it all. Whether you’re starting a business, learning to invest, or simply creating a budget, every step you take toward financial literacy is a step toward freedom.


Your Call to Action

Don’t wait for life to force you into financial independence—start today. Create a vision for your money. Learn, plan, and grow. Because when women have knowledge and vision, we don’t just survive—we thrive.

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Turning Roadblocks Into Hope: A Message for Single Moms

Today I turned on the news and saw something that gave me hope. It was definitely a “Your Cross Is Your Crown” moment. Lately, I have been feeling like I can do hard things. Especially in areas where I may have allowed my skills to um, lapse–i.e. the financial literacy department.

As you know, life can throw curveballs and there are unexpected challenges that change everything. For some, those twists lead to single motherhood. For others, it’s been the reality from day one. Either way, the journey can feel overwhelming. You work hard, sometimes juggling multiple jobs, not just for survival but because deep down, you want more time with your kids. Ironically, the biggest struggle for single parents isn’t just money—it’s time. Time to guide, nurture, and be present.

I grew up with both parents, but they worked tirelessly to give us a good life. I often wondered if they missed moments with me and my brother while chasing financial security. That thought stays with me as a mom—because whether you’re single or partnered, the desire is the same: to give your children the best future possible.

Here’s the truth: being a single parent is not a life sentence. Kids grow up. One day, you’ll step into a new chapter—stronger, wiser, and ready to build something even better. But right now, your focus is on their future. And today, I found something that gave me hope: Trump Accounts. This is an amazing philanthropic gift from the Dell Family. I am here for anyone who puts tangible action into play, especially for our nation’s youth. This is huge. I plan to post more on the steps to engaging this opportunity in future posts but this is a genuine solution for children under 18 and their families. Read on for how it works.


Why This Matters

If you’re a single mom or part of a working family, you know the daily balancing act—stretching every dollar while dreaming of college, a first home, or a debt-free start for your child. Saving feels impossible when bills demand your attention. That’s why Trump Accounts are such a breakthrough.


What Are Trump Accounts?

  • $1,000 Government Seed: Every eligible child gets a head start.
  • Up to $5,000/year Family Contributions: Build steadily over time.
  • Employer Contributions: Up to $2,500 annually, tax-free.
  • Dell Family Bonus: $250 for millions of children in qualifying communities.

Funds grow through investments in U.S. stock index funds. If fully funded, a child born in 2026 could have:

  • $303,800 by age 18
  • $1,091,900 by age 28
    (Projections, not guarantees—but powerful nonetheless.)

Why It’s a Game-Changer for Single Moms

This isn’t just about money—it’s about opportunity. It’s about breaking cycles, leveling the playing field, and giving your child a foundation for education, entrepreneurship, and independence. For single moms, Trump Accounts offer something rare: a chance to turn small steps today into life-changing outcomes tomorrow.


Final Thoughts

You already give your child love, resilience, and guidance. Now, you can give them something even more powerful—a financial head start. This is more than a savings account; it’s a promise of possibility.


Call-to-Action:
What do you think about this initiative? Could it help your family? Share your thoughts below and subscribe for more resources on building a brighter future for your kids. Also, please like share and subscribe. Thanks for reading.

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American Heritage Tribute: Exploring African American Fighter Units this Veteran’s Day

Veterans Day is a time to reflect, honor, and express gratitude to all who have served in the armed forces. From every background and every branch, these individuals have made profound sacrifices to protect our freedoms and shape our nation’s story.
This year, we wanted to offer something special—a way to honor not just the well-known chapters of military history, but also those that deserve more visibility. That’s why we created the Vintage African American Military Heritage Bundle.
This digital collection features carefully curated vintage imagery that highlights the strength, dignity, and service of African American soldiers throughout U.S. history.

To commemorate this, we’ve created a special Vintage African American Military Heritage Bundle—a curated digital collection of powerful vintage imagery that celebrates the strength, dignity, and patriotism of Black soldiers.


Veterans History Project Voice of Isham George Benton–from the Library of Congress.

🗂️ What’s included:

This striking set of four insignia designs paying tribute to the legendary African American military units that served with distinction in the U.S. Armed Forces. Each patch is a powerful symbol of bravery, resilience, and heritage—perfect for collectors, history enthusiasts, or anyone who values the untold stories of Black excellence in military service.


• 2nd Ranger Company (Airborne) – Featuring a buffalo and parachute emblem with the motto “Buffalo Rangers”
• 758th Tank Battalion – Iconic crossed swords and goggles with the Latin motto “Semper Paratus” (Always Ready)
• 555th Parachute Infantry Battalion (“Triple Nickles”) – Crescent moon and triple fives, honoring the first all-Black airborne unit
• 505th Airborne Infantry – Bold eagle and star design representing elite paratroopers
📌 Product Details:
• 1 high-quality embroidered patch design with separate sewing instructions
• 1 Printable SVG file
• 1 high resolution collective insignia design with gold lettering and 1 without the gold lettering.
• 1 high resolution collective insignia design perfect for printing and framing.

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Embracing Transformation Through Faith

The next phase of my life is intentional and full of meaning, shaped by stories of transformation and inspired by moments that spark gratitude. It may be deeply personal, but many of those moments are love letters to God. I’ve thought carefully about what I’m building, and nothing moves, changes, or inspires me like my walk of faith. My journey is unique—I wasn’t born this way—but I strive daily to be a “good daughter” and a faithful steward of my freedom.

There were times when money was tight, yet those seasons brought the best holidays ever. There were moments I thought anger would consume me, but I ended up laughing instead. Life keeps getting better. Every day brings challenges, but they’re worth facing. When I say “thank you for your support,” I mean it. Even in the darkest times, I can look back and feel the love. If you’re in a dark place, hold on—just for one more day. Find one thing to be thankful for. Gratitude brings blessings, and those blessings are for everyone. No storm lasts forever; eventually, the rain has to stop.

So maybe when you lay your head down to sleep whisper Jeova Es Mi Pastor and know that you are loved. That is why I created “Your Cross Is Your Crown.” It is. The thing that seems like it is too much to bear is the very thing you will bring in the light.

Besos and Bendiciones,

La Luz

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Investing in What Matters: My Priceless Purchases

Outside of this fancy mug I just splurged buying, it’s been hard to think about what I’ve spent a lot of money on. I do have quite a few art supplies and all of them were costly. In the past, my most expensive purchase would have been my computer but I’ve added a few bells and whistles to my life since then. Oh, I do remember buying a few designer bags. They were exciting, but buying the $300 worth of fabric for the first gown I sewed was more exhilarating.

I feel the best in life when I’m getting a deal. While I’m not a full on haggler on prices, I do like to take my time comparison shopping, and scouring the shelves like a detective for discounts. In truth, depending on when the season is, different things are expensive at different times. I remember buying tomatoes as an adult while trying to become an entrepreneur because the job market was meh, was a challenge. But when it comes to my art supplies, and fabric, I have had no regrets.

In the future, I think I may add trips and hotels to this list, but for now, these are things that feed my soul and are worth the expense.

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By The Water

It may not be everyday, but I plan to be by water. It will keep me smiling and young. I will leave a salsa imprint in the sand.

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Would I Pay To Travel To The Moon?

This is a bit of an unfair question. I feel like I travel there, or at least some part of me does, every night. I love the moon and if I had to pay to visit, I would. However, I want to visit the back side the moon. I hear that’s where the real fun is.

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Le Flux

I am open to going with even more of the flow.

So far, so great.

I am positive there is a whole side of the universe that I do not know and I’d like to see it. I want to learn more, see more, and be more and for that I have to be open.

If I had to pick something more tangible, I would like to going snowboarding. I also would like to try a rare food. Something like the world’s best coffee or the last Ostrich egg.