
โShe is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.โ โ Proverbs 31:25
One of the biggest shifts in my life has been steadily stepping into entrepreneurship and embracing fiscal responsibility. Every day, I learn something new about moneyโand hereโs the truth: money is not a bad word. Itโs actually a powerful tool and far more than just a way to pay bills. It can fund dreams, create security, and open doors to freedom.
Thereโs an old saying: โPeople perish for lack of knowledge and vision.โ That resonates deeply with me. Many of us, if weโre honest, approach money in a hand-to-mouth way because we lack a clear vision for what to do with it. Years ago, I took time to pray and reflect on the vision for my lifeโnot as a wife or mom, but as a woman.
That moment set a series of changes in motion. I realized I didnโt want another purse or more ill-fitting clothes. I wanted purpose, impact, and abundanceโbut without vision, those things felt out of reach. I don’t feel that so much now. I am in a space of looking around and seeing what life has to offer and being grateful for what is there. There is alot and I will be sharing lots of resources and initiatives from my home state.

The Reality for Women and Money
Hereโs why this conversation matters:
- After divorce, womenโs household income drops by an average of 41%, compared to 23% for men.
- Nearly 56% of women defer financial decisions to their spouse, leaving them vulnerable when life changes.
- Financial literacy among women lags behind menโonly 52% of women demonstrate strong financial knowledge compared to 62% of men.
These numbers are sobering, especially when you consider that many women have never opened a bill or managed household finances until a major life event forces them to. But hereโs the good news: awareness is the first step toward empowerment.
Gratitude and Growth

My biggest attitude is gratitude. Life will hand you lemonsโbut you can keep squeezing out lemonade. These are the years to change it all. Whether youโre starting a business, learning to invest, or simply creating a budget, every step you take toward financial literacy is a step toward freedom.
Your Call to Action
Donโt wait for life to force you into financial independenceโstart today. Create a vision for your money. Learn, plan, and grow. Because when women have knowledge and vision, we donโt just surviveโwe thrive.
