Life can be serious. Especially when you have little eyes looking up to you.
While it’s fun, joyful, and a blessing, it’s also a serious act of stewardship. Not long ago, I had more time to pour myself into causes I cared about, but when you become the cause and have people depending on you, that takes priority. I once wrote in another article about how doing my own taxes changed my perspective. It made me think a lot about where my money goes, how I spend it, how I invest it, and how it’s ultimately used. As a society, we complain about money often, yet rarely talk about engaging with the system, learning the processes, and taking small, actionable steps toward affordability.
I remember spending a year unable to comfortably eat out. I lived on 7-11 taquitos, dressed up frozen meals over rice like they were gourmet, and mostly ate at home. My rule was that it had to be quality, so I went to the store every day. It was a grind I’ll never forget. Back then, the government wasn’t on my mind. The truth is, I don’t like waiting—waiting to be published, to build, to eat, to be good enough. I like to be prepared and ready, with anything extra being icing on the cake. Life is happening now, and the definition of responsibility is to do a little at a time. It adds up.
Next year, Americans are expected to get an extra $1,000 in their bank accounts. It won’t change everything, but in certain phases of life, it can make a difference. If you don’t need it, invest it.
One thing I’ve noticed, and experienced myself, is the contradiction of complaining about money while feeling guilty discussing it. How can I need it yet resent it? How can I call it in while pushing it away? Anything that genuinely helps make life easier is worth appreciating. As long as your values remain intact, be grateful—because chances are, you’ve earned it.
Here are five financial books for women:
1. Debt Proof Living by Mary Hunt
- Debt-Proof Living is a concept popularized by Mary Hunt in her book and community platform. It’s a practical approach to getting out of debt and staying out of debt for life.
- The philosophy emphasizes living within your means, building financial resilience, and creating habits that prevent future debt
2. Get Good with Money by Tiffany Aliche
- A step-by-step guide to achieving financial security through budgeting, saving, and investing.
- Includes actionable checklists and worksheets to help you build wealth. [
3. You Are a Badass at Making Money by Jen Sincero
- Combines mindset coaching with practical financial advice.
- Great for women who want to overcome limiting beliefs and build confidence around money.
4. Clever Girl Finance by Bola Sokunbi
- Offers relatable strategies for paying off debt, saving, and investing.
- Written specifically for women seeking financial independence and confidence.
5. Your Money or Your Life by Vicki Robin & Joe Dominguez
- A classic that teaches how to transform your relationship with money and achieve financial freedom.
- Focuses on aligning spending with personal values and long-term goals.
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