Sacrificing The Fun Stuff

What makes a good leader?

Leaders are built.

Yes, there are some natural born leaders and varying leadership styles, but the ability to lead is often derived from the insight that failure brings. I’ve learned the most from my losses because I seem to like things the hard way. It’s the best way to learn for me. Perhaps I know something good is on the other side of it all so I simply persevere.

It goes without question that a leader should have a vision, be able to communicate it, and have a level of empathy to serve and to motivate. I think the biggest sacrifice a leader makes is through delegation. Delegation is the sign that you are ready to lead. You are ready to take on new challenges and new levels. It’s not easy. When you love something you want to be hands on. You want to be part of all the nuts and bolts of the thing that brought your passionate endeavor about. Yet, as a leader it’s a sign that you are now able to teach others. While it can feel like a sacrifice it ultimately is a great blessing. When you teach others to fish, that’s when you are cooking with gas.

The call to lead is the gift of growth and expansion. To have followers is an even bigger reward and commitment, because hopefully you can instill in them all your knowledge and make them better. You never forget people who make you better. Great leaders have a way of naturally doing this.

I was yesterday years old when I decided that it’s time to delegate. My mind feels more open just thinking about it. I even found time to go back to the gym with my mind freed up a bit. Delegation and inspiration are two of my personal goals this year. I told myself, “hey you can’t take all your wisdom to the grave.” It’s time to share it.

My daughter is a big sharer. So, I am learning from a very wise child how to be a great leader.

Thanks for reading.